Dad has shown nothing but grace in dying. He has had every opportunity to be angry and bitter and frustrated and just plain difficult, but he has been anything but that. He has been in complete control of his body. Every decision has been made by him. He has never complained about being in pain, about being uncomfortable, about anything. He has been a man of great courage with his dealings with his cancer. Everytime a problem would arise he’d come up with a solution. Dad has been able to show me how to take care of him in ways that I would not have been able to figure out on my own. He has walked me through every single problem and because of that I have been able to make him more comfortable. Dad would be the man to go through hell with, he’d keep his cool and he’d get you through it. He has literally helped us all through this process of his dying. He has gotten us all through it whether he knows it or not.
Dad has decided to end his Ensure regime. He’s been sleeping an awful lot today and he has given up. It is now a matter of time and I can feel the end coming soon.
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